What if I dedicated time and discipline to myself instead of others? What kind of results would I get? 

For the longest time I always had a friend tell me ‘The world is your oyster.’ And while I understood the statement I never could quite grasp it, until March 2023.  

I was on vacation in the Philippines reconnecting with family members I haven’t seen in over a decade. In that current state of mind, it was an eye opening trip.

 It made me realize at the time, about 80% of my problems back home in the U.S were fixable by me, and me alone.

 Being in the Philippines not only made me realize I needed to get my shit together, but I could also be living a life I had always imagined for myself. 

So here I am, just a simple 30 year  old girl trying to figure out how to live her life as authentically as possible.

 The way I know how to do that best is to hold myself accountable and approach my life from a non-judgemental space. Everyday I like to remind myself,

 “If you could be good at something you hate, imagine how amazing you would be at something you loved.”

-Kat